Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

menu close

When “Positive” Words Harm (Day 129 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Flattery 3)

/ 17:44/E442
In this Jewish Inspiration Podcast episode (Day 129), Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe continues the Gate of Flattery (Chanufa) from Orchos Tzaddikim, focusing on the third major aspect: praising or commending the wicked (reshayim) in their presence or before others—even indirectly.
Key teachings:
  • Praising the wicked — Saying “he’s a good person,” “he’s pleasant,” or highlighting minor good deeds—even without justifying their evil—is forbidden. It risks elevating them undeservedly and creating stumbling blocks.
  • Consequences — The wicked feel validated (“I’m really a good guy”), double down on evil, and become more entrenched. Others may honor them, envy their “success,” imitate them, or lose respect for true tzaddikim (righteous people).
  • Honoring tzaddikim — When the righteous are exalted, people heed their counsel, envy their good deeds, and grow in Torah/yiras shamayim (fear of heaven). This aligns with Hashem’s intent in creation.
  • Practical warning — Avoid praising the wicked unless also mentioning their evil (to maintain balance and truth). Even neutral/positive comments can lead to misplaced honor and spiritual damage.
  • Broader impact — Flattery of resha’im desecrates Torah/divine service. The soul yearns for closeness to Hashem—praising evil distances us from that.
The rabbi ties this to current events (e.g., evil regimes collapsing) and emphasizes aligning with Hashem’s values: honor the righteous, distance from flattery, and bring God-consciousness through truthful speech and actions.
_____________
This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Peter & Becky Botvin

Recorded at TORCH Centre in the Levin Family Studios (B) to a live audience on January 5, 2026, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on February 18, 2026
_____________
This series on Orchos Tzadikim/Ways of the Righteous is produced in partnership with Hachzek.
Join the revolution of daily Mussar study at hachzek.com.
We are using the Treasure of Life edition of the Orchos Tzadikkim (Published by Feldheim)
_____________
Listen, Subscribe & Share: 
Share your questions at aw@torchweb.org or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
_____________
About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: awolbe@torchweb.org
_____________
Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
Your support makes a HUGE difference!
_____________
Listen More
Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 
For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
_____________
Keywords:
#JewishInspiration, #Mussar, #MasterClass, #Flattery, #Chanufa, #Praising, #Wicked, #Honoring,  #Truthful, #Speech
★ Support this podcast ★
When “Positive” Words Harm (Day 129 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Flattery 3)

headphones Listen Anywhere

More Options »